Treat Yourself!

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You are a Cause for Celebration! So Celebrate You!

How do you Treat Yourself? Can you list five ways you’ve treated yourself this week?

Are you someone who sparks fireworks daily, at any moment for no particular occasion but for the sheer magnificence that is you? Or do you see this perhaps as extravagant, a non-necessity, a ridiculous, nonsensical fancy?

‘Why should I treat myself?’ you may ask. ‘Isn’t this something that others do for you or you do possibly once in a while?’

For me, treating myself is an everyday affair, a delight that is supposed to be enjoyed! Certainly not ridiculous and definitely worth it. The question is much rather ‘what good reason is there not to treat myself?’ And to that I can think of no good reason at all.

To rise to any occasion and treat yourself well is of great value. To acknowledge your worth, your intrinsic greatness and your splendor is of essence.

Life is here to be lived, treasured and jazzed up!

And there are many many ways to do so…

I like to make my own dinner parties just for me! I set the table beautifully, cook something delicious, light candles, put a flower on the table, get all dressed up and enjoy my date! I take myself on picnics in the park with an amazing book, blanket, music and I just sit back and sip up the moment. I pamper myself, style my hair, paint my nails and feel pretty. I eat dark chocolate and make quiche. I take long, indulging baths with oils and candles. I go on lovely yoga retreats, have massages, go out to restaurants, have lie-ins, lie on my lounger in the sun and drink cocktails, freshen up my room and….

the list goes on!

Everyday I treat myself in some way, often very simply (I believe wholeheartedly in simple pleasures!) Am I self-absorbed? I don’t think so. I have just learnt to value myself and see all occasions as potential firework displays. I create pleasure, not pain.

By giving pleasure to yourself, you can give the same for others.

Start to treat yourself in new, exciting, pleasurable and fabulous ways right now!!

Make a list! A Treat-storm!

Grab pen to paper and start scribbling down all the treats you’d like to give yourself. Untie your subconscious mind and let the ideas flow! Do you love to travel? See the sky? Eat cheese? Have your hair styled? Enjoy a head massage? Buy a simple rose?

You can be your own best present giver, treater, personal shopper, endorphins releaser, friend, romantic.

You have the ability to put a great big smile on your face, so don’t sit back and wait for the world to turn the edges!

I’d love to hear of all the ways you treat yourself, the appointments you make, the pleasures you live.

Treat Yourself well! Live a happy, enriching life.

Come Rain or Shine!

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A positive attitude is what lights up the sky!

One that says ‘whatever the weather, I am happy’, ‘whatever the weather, I choose peace today’ , ‘whatever the weather, I’m having a great day!’.

Such an attitude does not depend on ‘good’ weather, things to be going one way or another, other people’s reactions or any outside occurrence.

A positive perspective is an inside job – one that everyone can benefit from having. And the domino effect it has is incredible! See your smile appear on the faces of others!

On too many occasions, you put your happiness on standby because of the way you see things and the way you want things to be. From the very moment you look out of your window in the morning you decide what feeling you’re going to take around with you through the course of your day. How many times have you said ‘Oh no it’s raining!, how awful, it’s going to be a dreary day’ A dreary day you ask for, a dreary day you shall get! And blame it on the weather you may, but do you really think the weather deserves a pointing finger?

What is it that makes rain so miserable and sunshine cheery? The answer is, you do.

Because the truth is the weather brings neither happiness nor sorrow. This meaning you attach to it is to suit you, to excuse you, to keep you firmly fixed in a blanket of edgy comfort.

But now is the time to throw the comfort blanket down! Because it’s smoldering your perspective. Take responsibility for your days, your moods and claim back your happiness – come rain or shine!

Choose to have a spring in your step no matter what the circumstances be! Imagine all the fun and exciting things you could be doing and feeling if you made a decision to love each moment, whatever the weather…

So next time you look out of the window at a grey cloud or feel a splatter on your raincoat, take a second to adopt your positive attitude, put a smile back on your face and jump joyfully in the closest puddle! And in doing so, you will inspire others to do the same!

Find happiness in all weather. Create puddles of joy. And take this healthy attitude with you through life.

Happiness

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We are as happy as we choose to be. No more and no less.

We can think of happiness as something that spontaneously arises in our lives from time to time or as an end post we reach after life’s great trials ad tribulations have taken their toll, but it is not until we open to the idea that ‘happiness is a choice that we can all experience at any moment’ that we will source the flow of an abundance of this glowing warming feeling into our lives.

Make happiness a priority and feel good from moment to moment. How often do you enter a situation in full awareness that you are responsible for how you feel? Do you allow circumstance to decide or do you take charge? It is easy to forget, and we all do, that happiness is at our disposal all the time! We get caught up in life’s dramas and events that we mask that which we all need and are truly searching for. It is indeed the one who wears rosy glasses that sees the beauty, the joy, the greatness and the happiness in everything. We can choose to see what we want to. We can choose to be happy. We each have a pair of rosy glasses, we just don’t always put them on.

Happiness is available to us all, in every moment. It is up to us as individuals to claim happiness and to live it and dance it’s song. From the second we get out of bed in the morning we can choose happiness, in all of our actions, words and motivations. Just as on our birthdays or Christmas day we choose to experience rushes of excitement and tingly sensations within which carry us through our day, we can do this day in day out. It just takes an awareness of how we choose to feel.

We often spend too much time wasting opportunities, moments and experiences. We carry blame, judgment, non-forgiveness, criticism and hurt around with us. But where does this get us? Further away from happiness and further bogged down into an unnecessary state of no return. We need to create bridges towards peace and happiness, to freedom. We need to start living to our fullest potential and sing happiness to the treetops! And to do so we must dissolve the things that keep us stuck and distant. Life is too short not to be happy.

Sure, still choose wisely your environment, circle of friends, hobbies, partners and what you fill your life with. I am by no means suggesting that you choose to be happy but neglect your wheel of life. Positively change the things that you can and choose happiness in those you can ‘and’ can’t change. We all have certain things that we can’t change, that just are – whether it be our past, families, genetics or the way others treat us – but it is down to us to nurture acceptance for these. To react in a positive and healing way and to make the most of everything in the best way we can. Why make a situation worse than it is by being unhappy? We can all turn any situation around for the better and call it one of life’s lessons.

What lies in the way between you and continuous happiness? Rid any excuses that you have. Put on your happiness coat right now, go outside and enjoy the light rain as it falls on you. Enjoy all weather! Marvel in it’s uniqueness! And apply this attitude to all things, big and small. Smile more, in fact right now. Give it a go. Be aware of your facial expressions, your body language. Look around you and see the beauty. See the heart in everyone, the brilliance in everything and know this is how things should be! We are experiencing the real uncovered us when we feel fuzzy inside.

So instead of seeking ways to justify unhappiness or complacency with life, find reasons to be happy. When you meet up with your friend today or tomorrow make an intention to only speak words of kindness and positivity. Give moaning, complaining and negativity no room, no purpose. Make a list of all the things that you are grateful for in your life. Sit back and be amazed by how many you can come up with. Make today a happy day! Do the things that help bring about happy thoughts and encourage this warming glow.

How do you currently live happiness? To the maximum or with great interludes? Start to bring happiness to the forefront of your minds, your actions and your motivations. Experience feeling happy in all situations, from brushing your teeth to writing a letter to meeting up with family. Think carefully about how you are feeling and how you could influence happiness inside yourself and all around you.

Our world needs more happy people. Choose happiness now.

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