Good Habits

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Good Habits make a Good Life!

When your habits are good, you feel better, you have more energy, you see positive effects from the things you do, you have much more time available to do more of the things you love and the world just seems to work so much better!

Good Habits are not something just a percentage of us can have – they are out there for the taking by each and everyone!

The sooner you start to pay attention to your habits, the quicker life will brighten up. You will begin to notice that the world doesn’t happen ‘to you’, but that you get to choose your circumstances, make your mark and reach for the top! And there’s no time better to do so than the present moment!

Have a think about your current daily habits. How do you feel about them? Do you feel they are contributing to your life, your goals, your dreams in a positive way? Or do you feel led by circumstances, driven by a ‘fixed’ behavioural pattern or unhappy with how things are unfolding?

Often we mistake our habits for our ’selves’. We think that the things we repeatedly do are indicators of our personalities, genes and make-up. Inescapable, unavoidable. ‘It’s just the way I am’ you may hear yourself say. But this is not the case. Habits can be cast away, changed and created! There is nothing set in stone about the way you are from moment to moment. You can change the script at any time you like….

So be courageous, bring an active mind and create Good Habits today! Here are some examples to get you started! -

- Getting up early and having a slow morning pace, bringing a calm, clear focus for the day. 10-30 minutes exercises will give you an extra boost too!
- Spending 10 or 15 minutes each morning setting a positive intention for your day, identifying a source of motivation to keep you energised and on track and planning your daily doings.
- Having a healthy breakfast – a wonderful source of energy first thing that sets you off well!
- Planning your daily exercise/fitness early on, writing it in your diary and keeping to this important appointment with yourself! (You can look to your source of motivation to spark your thirst for this.)
- Making and setting goals and dreams that you can work towards and which provide a central meaning to your life.
- Arriving at appointments/meetings 10 minutes early – this will help you feel calm, settled and on top of things, whilst also not letting yourself or anyone else down!
- Choosing 3 positive things to do or say daily to loved ones, colleagues or strangers!
– Acting and living by your principles, values and what means dear to you.
- Making healthy food choices throughout your day – by staying fully aware and responsible for what you fuel yourself on.
- Being outdoors in the fresh air each day and lapping up the breeze!
- Having a phone chat/ meet up with someone you love spending time with – and who you leave feeling refreshed and happy.
- Choosing to use positive, meaningful words and language and dropping the rest that’s holding you back.
- Thinking positively about your career, the benefits you gain, aspects you love or perhaps considering an alternative occupation that’d suit you better.
- Keeping your room clear, tidy and organised – a clear surrounding space helps a clear and focused mind. Recycle or take to a charity shop anything that’s no longer of use to you – it may just well be of fantastic use to someone else!
- Creating a night-time routine – getting a good night’s seep, finishing off any lingering task from the day and thinking over everything that went positively whilst falling off to sleep.

Getting into the swing of nurturing good habits allows the best you to shine! You’ll feel forever satisfied and thankful for it.

Create some good habits today and reap the rewards they bring you….

See Her Beauty

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Loving, supportive and positive friendships are what make the world go round.

Relationships of this kind touch us so deeply and hold an irreplaceable contribution towards having a healthy life.

To open your eyes wide enough to see your friend for who she* truly is, her heart, her essence, her Being is to See Her Beauty.

To see the sparkle in her eye, her dreams, her kindness, her inner smile.

Sometimes we do not look deep enough, either by skimming the surface or staying in the shadows, to see what is eternally true: that royal beauty lies within each of us, so warm and loving – that needs recognition, understanding and nurturing to flourish.

You have choice in this world: you can seek and practice positive friendships based on love and compassion or you can quiet your beating heart.

You can See Her Beauty or you can not see your own.

I know what I choose. I care from my heart and see the many hearts around me. I see the beauty in every friendship I hold. I am thankful for every friend I have, for each inspires me with their individual spark. I hold my hands wide and bare in asking to be a part of their lives, their journeys, their joy.

Friendships are too precious to be understated, overlooked or misused. With every green eye, angry, resentful, complacent or fearful moment you take, you miss out so greatly on beauty so available, so unique.

Stay united with those of the same sex and opposite. There is no threat but any that you choose to create – so do without.

Form friendships of gold based on pure and unobstructed love, treating them as treasure so rare.

Just see how much beauty you can create in your own life and lives of others in an opening of your heart.

* I use ’she’ only as a personal example. I feel so blessed to have such amazing friendships with so many beautiful women. Please interchange ’she’ for ‘he’ as appropriate for you. :)

Come Rain or Shine!

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A positive attitude is what lights up the sky!

One that says ‘whatever the weather, I am happy’, ‘whatever the weather, I choose peace today’ , ‘whatever the weather, I’m having a great day!’.

Such an attitude does not depend on ‘good’ weather, things to be going one way or another, other people’s reactions or any outside occurrence.

A positive perspective is an inside job – one that everyone can benefit from having. And the domino effect it has is incredible! See your smile appear on the faces of others!

On too many occasions, you put your happiness on standby because of the way you see things and the way you want things to be. From the very moment you look out of your window in the morning you decide what feeling you’re going to take around with you through the course of your day. How many times have you said ‘Oh no it’s raining!, how awful, it’s going to be a dreary day’ A dreary day you ask for, a dreary day you shall get! And blame it on the weather you may, but do you really think the weather deserves a pointing finger?

What is it that makes rain so miserable and sunshine cheery? The answer is, you do.

Because the truth is the weather brings neither happiness nor sorrow. This meaning you attach to it is to suit you, to excuse you, to keep you firmly fixed in a blanket of edgy comfort.

But now is the time to throw the comfort blanket down! Because it’s smoldering your perspective. Take responsibility for your days, your moods and claim back your happiness – come rain or shine!

Choose to have a spring in your step no matter what the circumstances be! Imagine all the fun and exciting things you could be doing and feeling if you made a decision to love each moment, whatever the weather…

So next time you look out of the window at a grey cloud or feel a splatter on your raincoat, take a second to adopt your positive attitude, put a smile back on your face and jump joyfully in the closest puddle! And in doing so, you will inspire others to do the same!

Find happiness in all weather. Create puddles of joy. And take this healthy attitude with you through life.