Letting Go

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Ahhh to feel truly relaxed, at peace and free. To have this feeling fill you up and flow through you. That is just a wonder.

Letting Go is all about setting yourself free, softening, finding solace, a place of comfort and being released from any discomfort.

It is a brilliant tool to use in bringing more and more happiness to you. As you begin to let go in different areas of your life, you become closer connected with your core, your essence. You relearn how to breathe deeply, see the hearts around you and spend moments of pure happiness with loved ones.

Letting Go is such a valuable skill to nurture. And one to keep close to you on your life’s journey. It is precious. For the process of gradual release allows you to unwind, untie and discard anything in you and your life which is in ravels, knots, piles and perhaps has been for some time, accumulating dust.

As you begin to let go, you can stand back and see before your eyes how the world can change and look so different. This new softer, calmer perspective allows your breath to lengthen, muscles to relax and the stars to brighten above you.

No longer do you need to hold on to any anger bubbling inside you, hate spitting out of you, resentment festering, regret lingering, greed all-consuming, frustration revving. The tightness constricting you can relax, old thoughts can be blown away and peace can set in.

How can you Let Go? When you’re holding on with all your might to a world you know so well and have habituated – How can you refresh the moment, untangling what you no longer need?

How can you find such peace and tranquility, a release from caught-up emotions? How can you see the sunlight again after it’s been hiding for so long behind that cloud?

Not always an easy process. Taking longer for some than others. But totally possible and definitely worth the effort.

For each of us, the ravels, knots and piles vary. The things you want to let go of in your life are different from your partners, friends and family. Letting Go is a personal journey. So you need to think carefully about what it is that you are holding on to that restricts you from being truly free and the best, healthiest version of yourself. What is it that’s wasting your energy, enthusiasm and potential?

Ways of Letting Go: Close any arguments that have been going on for countless time, no matter who’s fault you think it is. Forgive everyone, no matter how much hurt you feel. Lose all blame, taking full responsibility for yourself. Do not victimise yourself, this only wastes time. Know that happiness is an inside job, the answers aren’t ‘out there’. Be grateful for everything you have, little and large. Make friends with your supposed enemies, see them as innocent. Speak with loving words to yourself, harsh words feed the pain. Seek the things that bring you lasting joy, lose the things that weigh you down. Look on the positive side of life, lose negativity. Stop trying to please everyone, it’s not possible or worthwhile. Drop the habits which leave you feeling bad, see them as old.

Forgiveness, Self-Responsibility, Inner Happiness, Gratitude, Friendship, Kindness, Compassion – these are your keys to peace. And unless you unlock the doors, you may never see how different it can be.

Throughout the process of Letting Go stay close to your breath. Breathe in everything that you feel, good or bad. Use your breath to steady yourself, stay in the present moment and slow things down for you to see clearly what’s really happening.

Breathe in. Let Go. Breathe out.

A Balancing Act

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Life is a Balancing Act. – Get the balance right and life feels great!

When you are in good balance with yourself and the world around you, you surely reap the benefits, feeling happier, more grounded, steady, focused, calm and clear-minded. Things just seem to run much smoother, work goes well, your energy levels are higher, people around you are smiling more, you reach your daily goals and you feel in a natural flow with life!

Whereas tipping the balance can leave you hanging too high or falling too low. You may feel under the weather, unsteady, anxious, too high, light-headed, wobbly, even depressed or ill. There may not appear a clear solution when you’re feeling like this. Sometimes it can feel as though the world is against you – but often in reality we are simply out of balance – something that can definitely be changed for the better!

It is a good idea to take time out from your day to day life and assess how things are going for you. If you run at full speed you can sometimes overlook feelings of imbalance, so make some quiet time for check-ins and ask yourself these questions – Are you feeling balanced? What areas of your life could do with a better balance? Job/Career, Relationships, Friends & Family, Fun & Recreation, Physical Environment, Finances, Health & Wellbeing? How could you bring this about? Be sure to allow space for answers to come. Notice how you are breathing and feeling as you do so.

When you are caught up in a whirlwind in your life, often the ups and downs help you to pinpoint where you are lacking balance. You may catch yourself acting unusually, perhaps symptoms of being off balance appear, or a friend or family member could be your wake up call. However you discover it, be thankful for this new understanding and start to look for ways of tilting the scales back to neutral. Otherwise things can go from bad to worse causing upset in a life which needn’t be so.

The great thing is there are lots of ways of bringing more balance into your life! And useful tools to help you feel steadily happy and stress-free! Identify what your priorities in life are, what things mean the most to you. This will help bring more focus, direction and balance in the things that you do. You will find it easier to say no to invitations and demands from others which steer you away from your own path. You then won’t feel burned out by trying to do too many things at once.

Writing things down is a very therapeutic way of creating clarity for yourself. Buy a diary and just put pen to paper with no expectations, just see what flows! – New ideas, plans and goals can formulate before your eyes! Set yourself realistic goals and go for them! Practice self-discipline and speak kindly to yourself at all times. Nourish your body and mind with things that leave you feeling balanced, whether it be hot, cool, spicy, sweet or salty, find out how you react to certain foods. Clean and tidy your living area, read your favourite book, take a break away, sit in the shade or sun, play your favourite sport, laugh out loud, take a long relaxing bath – do whatever you need to do to feel balanced.

For me, I know several key things I can do to help bring more balance in my life. My yoga practice, swimming, wearing cool colours, spending time with my family, eating cool and nutritious simple foods – lots of fruit and veg, being outdoors in nature, reading my favourite books, having a relaxing dinner with my best friends, meditating, teaching and being with children, taking a peaceful bath, writing in my diary, making cards and just sitting on my bed taking some ‘time for me’.

What things help you to feel more balanced? Is there something that you could do right now?

Let’s all try and bring more balance into our lives – Stay Balanced for a Healthy Life!

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Like a Child

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We are children. All of us. Only we do not always feel so.

Sometimes in life we drift further and further away from our innocence, our joyfulness. We become influenced by our teachings, surroundings, friends and families, societies’ standards and we start to lose our way, our path and our true happiness.

Perhaps we are lost, forgetful, fearful or clouded in our lives. We may give over to adulthood and grown-up years and think that the two cannot go hand in hand, that we cannot grow up and remain young at the same time. But we are as young as we choose! As happy as we wish to be! I challenge age as being a deciding factor of what we can and cannot be, do, say and live for. At any moment we can choose to see ourselves as children and recognise who we truly are.

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Like a Child we can exude happiness and smile wholeheartedly from ear to ear.
Like a Child we are free to use our incredible imaginations and creative tools.
Like a Child we can run, skip and play with delight.
Like a Child we can draw and paint all the beauty that we see.
Like a Child we can sing at the top of our voices and dance the night away.
Like a Child we can practice handstands over and over until the sun sets.
Like a Child we can fall over and then pick ourselves straight back up.
Like a Child we can light up every corner and room with our presence.
Like a Child we can cry tears and then laugh the very next moment.
Like a Child we can have hearts of gold.
Like a Child we can speak wonderful words of kindness with enthusiasm.
Like a Child we can stay up all night chatting with the people we love.
Like a Child we can swim, splash and float on water.
Like a Child we can be nurtured, cared for, loved and nourished.
Like a Child we can heal our wounds so quickly.
Like a Child we can make our dreams come true.
Like a Child we can be present in everything we do.
Like a Child we can be glowingly healthy.
Like a Child.

By loving, caring for and embracing ourselves as children we can truly awaken to our great potential thereby creating wonder all around us. We see how a child enters a space and by simply being present and alive positively changes it’s appearance, feel and nature.

With a soft and gentle approach we can help bring health into our world.

Ask yourself these questions – how would you nurture, care for and love a child? What environment would you create? Gestures would you make? Words would you say? Nourishment would you provide?

Do you give these things to yourself?

We all know so well, almost instinctively, how to look after a child, yet often we neglect ourselves. Our standards seem to fall when it comes to the way we care for ourselves. It’s as though we are not as in need or worthy of health and so we deprive ourselves. We may give away what we really need.

See the child that you are, that is yearning for your touch, your care and set high standards for the way you treat yourself. What words you say, actions you make, things you put in your bodies. You are as worthy as everyone else in the playground of life. However much time you have seen pass by, your heart is still the same, your being, your essence. You owe your inner child, yourself, your dreams to come true.

Aging can be a wondrous thing if we make this choice.

Let us not forget how special we are, how to treat, speak and inspire ourselves. Let’s be done with using age, adulthood and maturity as our excuses for not living our dreams and playing for the love of it. And let us bask in it’s glory instead.

Let us all tap into our hearts and connect with our inner child. Smile and love this child.

We decide what growing older means for us, how we want to be in the moments, days and years to come. Nothing says that we have to stop playing outside, running and skipping excitedly and freely. Nor do we have to let go of our wishes and our ambitions.

Take yourself gently by the hand, just as you would a child, and give yourself a warm and loving hug. Stay here with this feeling. Like a Child you are precious. Like a Child.

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